You are currently viewing No adoptions in a perfect world. Okay???

No adoptions in a perfect world. Okay???

“In a perfect world there would be no adoption.”

That phrase has haunted me for a long time. A social worker sat in my living room with a clip board and told us our windows were too low and needed safety glass installed before he would complete our home study. Then sometime after looking over our bank statement, he mused about the imperfections of the world we live in and how that imperfection demanded adoption.

I wasn’t a parent at the time. So, I had to agree with him. He was the authority. And I get it. I do get it. Adoption comes with a lot of pain. Pain for birth mothers and pain for adoptive children. But after five children, I’ve decided that sometimes adoption can make the world a little more perfect. Loving someone so totally different than yourself, seeing the world through eyes that don’t have your talents or abilities, these things can make a more perfect world. So, I can’t outright say adoption makes the world better, because then I would be ignoring all the pain involved in adoption; however, I still have to say loving someone you didn’t create, is a different kind of perfect.

This Post Has 73 Comments

  1. kardinal stick

    837534 381255Wow, incredible blog format! How lengthy have you been blogging for? you make running a weblog glance straightforward. The full glance of your site is wonderful, as smartly the content material! 518421

  2. Jaime Aird

    oh well, online promotion also takes a lot of work just like offline promotion of products and services*

  3. Esport

    446626 475253my grandmother is always into herbal stuffs and she always say that ayurvedic medicines are the most effective stuff 439418

  4. Aw, it was a really good post. In concept I must invest writing this way moreover – taking time and actual effort to manufacture a top notch article… but what can I say… I procrastinate alot and by no indicates appear to get something carried out.


    Unquestionably believe that which you stated. Your favorite justification appeared to
    be on the web the easiest thing to be aware of. I say to you,
    I definitely get irked while people think about worries that they
    plainly do not know about. You managed to hit the nail
    upon the top and also defined out the whole thing without
    having side-effects , people could take a signal. Will probably be back to get more.

  6. I am really loving the theme/design of your blog. Do you ever run into
    any browser compatibility problems? A number of
    my blog readers have complained about my site not operating correctly in Explorer but looks great in Opera.

    Do you have any advice to help fix this issue?

  7. whoah this weblog is great i like studying your articles.

    Stay up the great work! You understand, lots of persons are looking around for this
    information, you can help them greatly.

  8. flight search

    Hello there! I know this is kinda off topic however
    I’d figured I’d ask. Would you be interested in exchanging links or maybe guest authoring a blog article or vice-versa?
    My site addresses a lot of the same subjects as yours and I believe we could
    greatly benefit from each other. If you are interested feel free to shoot me an email.
    I look forward to hearing from you! Fantastic blog by the way!

  9. gamefly

    What’s up friends, nice post and fastidious arguments commented at this place,
    I am actually enjoying by these.

  10. gamefly

    You actually make it appear really easy together with your presentation however I to
    find this topic to be actually one thing that I believe I might by no means understand.

    It kind of feels too complicated and extremely huge
    for me. I’m taking a look forward to your next put up, I will try to get
    the hang of it!

  11. MonteKer

    [url=]pet meds without vet prescription canada[/url]


    Everyone loves what you guys tend to be up too. This type of clever work and exposure!
    Keep up the great works guys I’ve added you guys to my own blogroll.


    Good post. I certainly love this site. Continue the good

  14. Charlesnoich

    online ed medications ed pills otc natural remedies for ed


    Peculiar article, exactly what I was looking for.

  16. MichaelChamy

    cialis pills cialis coupon tadalafil without a doctor’s prescription

  17. houston junk car

    Magnificent web site. Plenty of helpful info here.
    I’m sending it to several pals ans additionally sharing in delicious.
    And certainly, thank you in your sweat!

  18. F*ckin’ amazing issues here. I am very happy to peer your article. Thank you a lot and i am taking a look forward to touch you. Will you kindly drop me a e-mail?

Leave a Reply