I'm Pregnant and Alone: Finding Support When You Feel Isolated

We hear you. You feel powerless. You feel alone. There are options. Options you can feel comfortable with. Financial and emotional help.

--Maybe you're staring at a positive pregnancy test with nobody to call.

--Maybe the father disappeared.

--Maybe you have friends, but none who could understand this.

--Maybe your family doesn't know yet, or worse, they know, and they're not helping.

--Maybe you're in a new city where you don't know anyone.

--Maybe you're in a new city where you don't know anyone.

Maybe:

  • –You feel you aren’t in a position to parent, despite your deep love for your baby.
  • –You feel that once you sign those relinquishment papers, you’ll lose all control over future communication with your precious child.
  • –You feel emotionally exhausted and physically drained from this life-changing decision.
  • –You don’t want your heart broken by losing connection with your child forever.
  • –You feel absolutely powerless in shaping your child’s future.

Why Feeling Alone Makes Everything Harder

It's Not Just Emotional

When you’re pregnant and feel alone, everything feels heavier:

    • –Every decision feels impossible
    • –Every symptom feels scarier
    • –Every day feels longer
    • –Every worry multiplies

This isn't weakness. This is being human.

We’re not meant to go through major life experiences completely isolated. Support isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.

Here's what you need to hear: You are not alone. Even though it feels that way right now.

  • Thousands of women face pregnancy without the support they need. And there are real ways to find connection, help, and community—even when you’re starting from scratch.

I'm pregnant and alone

The Physical Reality

Pregnancy is physically hard:

  • Morning sickness
  • Fatigue
  • Body changes
  • Medical appointments
  • Preparing for birth

Doing all of this without support is exhausting.

Birth Mothers,

we're committed to empowering you with choices and control.

  • We work tirelessly to find adoptive families that align with your values and hopes.
  • You are the only person who can create a parenting plan that feels right for your child.
  • You choose which loving adoptive parents will raise your baby.
  • You decide the level of openness in your ongoing relationship – from letters and photos to visits.
  • You maintain agency throughout your adoption journey.

How Can I Find Hope in Adoption

One of our team members has grown to deeply love a brave young birth mother. As this struggling teenager held her newborn baby and wrestled with her adoption decision, she sent this raw, emotional text:

“How can I have faith during this adoption process? It’s like my emotions are getting in the way of the best decision I can make for him.

It’s so emotionally devastating for me to place him for adoption, but I know it’s best for his future. How did other birth moms find the strength to go through with it? This is so incredibly hard, but I know it’s right.”

We hear you. We see your courage. We honor your love.

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